Lie

“If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.” – Mark Twain

If you lie, you’ll have to explain more
Once you lie, you’ll need another lie to cover it up
and maintain the story until you yourself believe it
or make others believe the details you’ve made up.
If you tell the truth, people will be more comfortable around you,
not having to wonder if what you’ve said was true.
If you tell a lie, make sure your facts are straight,
that there are no loopholes because people can tell,
not all are gullible to the tale you tell.
If you tell the truth, you’d earn the respect from people for being honest
and simply revealing who you are to them.

 

By telling a lie, one risk the valuable people and deeper relationships
you could have gained because of raising your defensive walls.
By telling the truth, one become easier to approach and to be with
thus establishing good rapport and positive communication.
By telling a lie, one bars understanding, and the barrier only intensifie
leaving one grumpy and secluded.
By telling the truth, one encourages sharing and mutual comprehension,
enabling bridges and connection.
By telling a lie, one deprives oneself from being known and understood
more importantly, from being true to oneself.
By telling the truth, one opens up avenues formerly hidden,
extending oneself to others which actually draw people in.

Ice

 

 

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On a trip to Korea, we woke up and saw the outside covered with snow. We didn’t see the actual snow, we were asleep then. It was winter time, but the streets were clear the past days; somehow this looked like Winter Wonderland. It was quite dangerous to travel the streets, but the snow has stopped and defrosting was underway.

Peace

peaceful waters

serene

偶而会追求平静的环境让脚步慢下来,享受美好的风景,也把心请放松一些。

Sometimes we could find a peaceful place, slow down our footsteps, enjoy the beautiful scene, and let our hearts wind down a bit.

 

过每一天

hearing the echo

时间过得真快,但只要努力的过每一天也可以活得很充实。我还不知道自己的地图,总在迷路当中,但这也没什么不好。我努力的让每一天有不一样的收获。可能偶而会任性一天,学会把自己更看重一点。现在的我比较希望身边的人过得快乐满足,希望我们能把烦恼放下,也希望我可以继续让身边的人更加有希望。把快乐传给他们,而不是失望或绝望。这些年学会了也体验了很多。我想善良的对待人生,对待人,所以我们要努力把好的传染给其他人。把沉重的表情抛开,笑容挂在脸上。那样做的力量是意想不到的成果。有着感恩的心就会把负面的事情删除,留下值得回忆的事情。我努力的安排每一天可以过得很有意义。